The basic steps are as follows:
Draw in all forces acting on the object .
The force between an object and a surface will, in general, have two components, a normal force (perpendicular to the surface) and friction (parallel to the surface and against the slipping tendency).
The tension in a rope (or wire) is always along the rope.
Weight is always down.
A hinge force will have a vertical and horizontal component the direction (up or down, left or right) of each will not always be obvious. However, if you choose wrong you will still get the right answer with a minus sign in front of it.
Replace all forces which are neither vertical or horizontal with their vertical and horizontal component forces.
Add all the forces in the "y" direction and set them equal to zero.
Add all the forces in the "x" direction and set them equal to zero.
Choose an axis and calculate the sum of the torques equal to zero.
There are no absolute rules for picking the axis but in general pick the point where the most forces act as your axis since this will eliminate these forces from your torque equation.
Remember clockwise torques are positive and counter-clockwise torques are negative.
Usually it is easiest to calculate the torque by multiplying the perpendicular ( to the body) component of the force by the distance from the axis to its point of application. This is not always true (see the ladder example below).
Solve the equations for the unknowns algebraically.